If Sabra does not win the competition, there is something SERIOUSLY wrong with the world. She is incredible...poetry in motion.
Jul 30, 2007
Lessons from the E.R.
A friend of mine was in the hospital the other day. While we waited for test results, we had to move rooms due to a major trauma (car wreck) being brought in. The situation? It.was.bad.
The whole staff went from strolling from one patient to another, calmly speaking to each one, to running to get supplies and calling out orders. It was scary. I wondered if the person had any family, or if he was all alone. I thought about how scary that would be, to be in such horrible condition and know it. Being the curious one, I asked our doctor if the person would be OK, he very plainly said, "most people with his kind of trauma are already dead by now, he's not, but he will be before the night is over. He'll be care-flighted out of here."
I respect medical professionals for being able to endure so many facets of life day in and day out. It broke my heart to know that a family had lost a loved one in the blink of an eye.
There was an elderly lady on the other side of the room from us (separated by a curtain), who kept moaning in pain. It was hard to hear her, and harder still to know that no one was beside her bed, holding her hand. I asked our nurse if someone was with her. She looked at me and said, "Most people just bring their elderly relatives here and then leave them. Drop them off at our doorstep really. It's horrible." Sadly, I was not as surprised as I wish I would have been when she told us that.
In a world that spouts so much about being independent and pursuing only what makes the individual happy, it's no wonder that when life's situations become trying, some will bail out. Another friend of mine actually went over to see if the woman needed anything, but mainly just to let her know someone heard her and cared. I'm not sure they did ever find her daughter. My stomach twisted into knots over that one.
A call reporting someone we love is being taken to the E.R. is frightening enough, but we were OK. The events happening around us? Heartbreaking. I do not take it lightly, none of it.
I wish people would stop trying to live life alone, void of human contact, unable to ask for help. The bottom line is that we need each other, a hug, a laugh, a meal, a shoulder to lean on, we were never meant to walk through this life alone.
The whole staff went from strolling from one patient to another, calmly speaking to each one, to running to get supplies and calling out orders. It was scary. I wondered if the person had any family, or if he was all alone. I thought about how scary that would be, to be in such horrible condition and know it. Being the curious one, I asked our doctor if the person would be OK, he very plainly said, "most people with his kind of trauma are already dead by now, he's not, but he will be before the night is over. He'll be care-flighted out of here."
I respect medical professionals for being able to endure so many facets of life day in and day out. It broke my heart to know that a family had lost a loved one in the blink of an eye.
There was an elderly lady on the other side of the room from us (separated by a curtain), who kept moaning in pain. It was hard to hear her, and harder still to know that no one was beside her bed, holding her hand. I asked our nurse if someone was with her. She looked at me and said, "Most people just bring their elderly relatives here and then leave them. Drop them off at our doorstep really. It's horrible." Sadly, I was not as surprised as I wish I would have been when she told us that.
In a world that spouts so much about being independent and pursuing only what makes the individual happy, it's no wonder that when life's situations become trying, some will bail out. Another friend of mine actually went over to see if the woman needed anything, but mainly just to let her know someone heard her and cared. I'm not sure they did ever find her daughter. My stomach twisted into knots over that one.
A call reporting someone we love is being taken to the E.R. is frightening enough, but we were OK. The events happening around us? Heartbreaking. I do not take it lightly, none of it.
I wish people would stop trying to live life alone, void of human contact, unable to ask for help. The bottom line is that we need each other, a hug, a laugh, a meal, a shoulder to lean on, we were never meant to walk through this life alone.
Depart I say, Depart
The other day, we finally got around to watching "The Departed," and what a waste of time! The movie has sat in our home for almost two weeks, almost begging to be watched. Finally, we got to it. In all fairness, it was not that bad of a movie, despite the incessant cussing, until the end. We were almost really involved with the characters, but the ending? So.lame! Truly, don't bother wasting time, money, or anything else. It really is not worth it.
Two thumbs down.
Two thumbs down.
Jul 26, 2007
Stranger than the pics I just posted of my feet
When we returned from our trip to NC, the folks who lived across the street from us were in the process of moving. There is still no for sale sign, no for rent, no for nothin sign out in the yard. But today? Today a locksmith showed up and was replacing the locks on the door. Very odd. My mind has come up with more scenarios than one mind should, and all are completely ridiculous, though highly entertaining (to me anyway). Wonder what happened.....
Ahhh, I think I am now the nosey woman in the neighborhood! Note to self: get out more!!!!
Ahhh, I think I am now the nosey woman in the neighborhood! Note to self: get out more!!!!
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Jul 25, 2007
Pedicure Predicament Results in a Chance to Help
While at Christine's house one day, she asked me if I liked pedicures. Are you kidding? I workout all the time and my feet are in horrible shape, I love pedicures; I just never get them.
As it turns out, she received a gift certificate from one of her students but would not use it because she abhors the process (truly, I do not know what is wrong with her). Being the nice friend that I am, I happily accepted her offer to use the gift certificate. I know I know, it was incredibly altruistic of me, but I am just willing to go that extra mile to help a friend out. (ha!)
This afternoon, after a business lunch with one of the coolest women I know, I went off to enjoy a pedicure. Wow, my feet feel so much happier now, and they look a whole lot better. Halfway through this incredible indulgence, a woman came in and sat in the chair next time. Instantly, I noticed the ankle brace on her right foot (it's the personal trainer in me). As she got situated, I asked her what happened. She was told she has a partial tear in her achilles tendon (ouch) and now has calcium deposits around it. I shared my own story of aquiring a 6 in plate and 7 screws in my right ankle, and proceeded to ask her about rehab and the like. The conversation turned into her revealing she moved here in March from Florida, after she retired. Why here? She informed me she visited once and told her daughter this is where she was coming when she retired. On a second trip up, she returned to Florida as an owner of a townhome here and proceeded to move. Her sister bought a house in the area as well...all in a week's time.
We then discussed the oh so fun trials and tribulations involved in moving, and places to take items she wants to get rid of. Of all places to have purchased a townhome, hers is one mile from my house. Small world. I gave her some options, then, being the "genius" I am, pulled out a business card and told her to call me if she needed help (her daughter is currently out of town). She told me her name, said she appreciated my offer, and that I should expect to hear from her. I.love.that.
Being involved with this business is teaching me the value of investing in people. As a former teacher and now a personal trainer, obviously, I like helping people. In fact, that is one of the reasons I was a psychology major, I liked the idea of helping other people. More importantly, I like to put hands and feet on my own faith. Besides, I like practical applications: help meet someone's basic needs, and gain a friend in the process.
So, thanks for the pedicure Christine; I think it will turn into an opportunity to serve someone else.
As it turns out, she received a gift certificate from one of her students but would not use it because she abhors the process (truly, I do not know what is wrong with her). Being the nice friend that I am, I happily accepted her offer to use the gift certificate. I know I know, it was incredibly altruistic of me, but I am just willing to go that extra mile to help a friend out. (ha!)
This afternoon, after a business lunch with one of the coolest women I know, I went off to enjoy a pedicure. Wow, my feet feel so much happier now, and they look a whole lot better. Halfway through this incredible indulgence, a woman came in and sat in the chair next time. Instantly, I noticed the ankle brace on her right foot (it's the personal trainer in me). As she got situated, I asked her what happened. She was told she has a partial tear in her achilles tendon (ouch) and now has calcium deposits around it. I shared my own story of aquiring a 6 in plate and 7 screws in my right ankle, and proceeded to ask her about rehab and the like. The conversation turned into her revealing she moved here in March from Florida, after she retired. Why here? She informed me she visited once and told her daughter this is where she was coming when she retired. On a second trip up, she returned to Florida as an owner of a townhome here and proceeded to move. Her sister bought a house in the area as well...all in a week's time.
We then discussed the oh so fun trials and tribulations involved in moving, and places to take items she wants to get rid of. Of all places to have purchased a townhome, hers is one mile from my house. Small world. I gave her some options, then, being the "genius" I am, pulled out a business card and told her to call me if she needed help (her daughter is currently out of town). She told me her name, said she appreciated my offer, and that I should expect to hear from her. I.love.that.
Being involved with this business is teaching me the value of investing in people. As a former teacher and now a personal trainer, obviously, I like helping people. In fact, that is one of the reasons I was a psychology major, I liked the idea of helping other people. More importantly, I like to put hands and feet on my own faith. Besides, I like practical applications: help meet someone's basic needs, and gain a friend in the process.
So, thanks for the pedicure Christine; I think it will turn into an opportunity to serve someone else.
Jul 24, 2007
90 mph and still rollin
After a great weekend, I was more than ready to get back and get - to - WORK! Time to move into action with business and get things rolling! My day started at 4:15 am, and I did not stop until it was time for bed. Talk about multi-tasking. Let's recap:
Trained at 5am
Came home and did my own workout
Mowed the lawn and swept garage and porch
Cleaned lawn mower (ick)
Showered and ate
Went to the grocery store
Made some calls necessary to increase business
Responded to some emails and sent some myself - some to presenters from the weekend
Did laundry
Made some bread
Typed up notes from the weekend to email out to my "team"
Read a bit
Got some pics loaded on the computer then got some developed
Made a mental "to call" list for today
Started a new blog
Practiced some of the things I learned this past weekend (business presentation)
Made dinner
Read some blogs
Really, I don't think I slowed down much at all yesterday, but, I was loving every minute of it. I like to feel productive and like I have a clearly defined purpose. All of that is carrying me through today too because we have goals people!!! Plus, I have this to help me get through the day, and it makes it so much easier! Back to work now.
Trained at 5am
Came home and did my own workout
Mowed the lawn and swept garage and porch
Cleaned lawn mower (ick)
Showered and ate
Went to the grocery store
Made some calls necessary to increase business
Responded to some emails and sent some myself - some to presenters from the weekend
Did laundry
Made some bread
Typed up notes from the weekend to email out to my "team"
Read a bit
Got some pics loaded on the computer then got some developed
Made a mental "to call" list for today
Started a new blog
Practiced some of the things I learned this past weekend (business presentation)
Made dinner
Read some blogs
Really, I don't think I slowed down much at all yesterday, but, I was loving every minute of it. I like to feel productive and like I have a clearly defined purpose. All of that is carrying me through today too because we have goals people!!! Plus, I have this to help me get through the day, and it makes it so much easier! Back to work now.
Jul 23, 2007
Lovin on Friends
As promised, here are some pics from our weekend, just 3 of them, but such is life. have I mentioned how much we love the Lewis family?!?!
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This is Sabrina, with her bronzed friend - a statue of Truett Cathy, founder of Chik-Fil-A.
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Me and my girls: Marejean and Sabrina. Really, I LOVE them!
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The Bat Mobile - for real. Mr. Cathy is a car collected, and he bought one of the cars (or maybe the car, I don't know) that was used in the Batman movies. It is pretty incredible up close.
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This is Sabrina, with her bronzed friend - a statue of Truett Cathy, founder of Chik-Fil-A.
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Me and my girls: Marejean and Sabrina. Really, I LOVE them!
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The Bat Mobile - for real. Mr. Cathy is a car collected, and he bought one of the cars (or maybe the car, I don't know) that was used in the Batman movies. It is pretty incredible up close.
Down in The ATL
Husband and I arrived safely home last night from our journey to the ATL for AdvoCare Success School. It was an incredible weekend, full of vaulable information concerning AdvoCare products and how to grow our business. I LOVED IT! The only drawback was that our sponsors were not able to go, nor were some folks we have helped get involved with AdvoCare. However, I now feel more equipped to succeed with this company, and now believe even more strongly in their products.
As a bonus, we got to see our friends, the Lewis family. As soon as we walked into their home, it felt like we were home. It felt like visiting family, safe, welcoming, filled with laughter, and filled with love. We were only able to stay with them Saturday night, but we were able to go to church with them, view the Chik-Fil-A corporate headquarters (Mr Lewis works there - and it is absolutely incredible), and just fellowship with a family we easily call ours. Any time with them is good, one minute, one hour, one day, it doesn't matter, we are always more joyful after time with them. It was blessed, to say the least, and we are now planning on when our next trip to see them will be.
More to come, along with some pictures, but I have a lawn that needs mowing, and the lawn mower won't seem to take action on its own. Boo.
As a bonus, we got to see our friends, the Lewis family. As soon as we walked into their home, it felt like we were home. It felt like visiting family, safe, welcoming, filled with laughter, and filled with love. We were only able to stay with them Saturday night, but we were able to go to church with them, view the Chik-Fil-A corporate headquarters (Mr Lewis works there - and it is absolutely incredible), and just fellowship with a family we easily call ours. Any time with them is good, one minute, one hour, one day, it doesn't matter, we are always more joyful after time with them. It was blessed, to say the least, and we are now planning on when our next trip to see them will be.
More to come, along with some pictures, but I have a lawn that needs mowing, and the lawn mower won't seem to take action on its own. Boo.
Jul 19, 2007
Ho hum ho hummmmm
What an interesting week, or two days, it has been. Andy was nice enough to suffer alongside of me and picked up the cold I have had. How nice huh? Since he works for such a great place, they have allowed him to work from home. Pretty sweet deal, no worries of passing on the cold, but he still works. No sick time taken away, very sweet. Yesterday afternoon, after he was done with his tasks, we went to see the new Harry Potter movie. It was great fun, though definitely not for young kids. We then headed to a restaurant we have never been too, and then "home James!" to watch last night's episode of So You Think You Can Dance. I will admit, I am addicted to that show. It's fabulous!
Sweet-ums worked from home today as well thanks to not getting any sleep due to not being able to breathe, minor detail really. His boss told him not to come in tomorrow either because none of them want his tainted germs, which works out well since we're heading to Atlanta tomorrow. Good times.
More to write, but I'm waiting for a client and I would rather not be in the middle of something when client arrives. Peace out ya'll....for now.
Sweet-ums worked from home today as well thanks to not getting any sleep due to not being able to breathe, minor detail really. His boss told him not to come in tomorrow either because none of them want his tainted germs, which works out well since we're heading to Atlanta tomorrow. Good times.
More to write, but I'm waiting for a client and I would rather not be in the middle of something when client arrives. Peace out ya'll....for now.
Jul 18, 2007
No really, who changed the clocks in here?
Maybe it's the waking up at 4:15 am and training a lovely young lady at 5am, but I swear it should be at least noon right now. Here's how it all has gone down this morning:
4:15: wake-up
4:40am: out the door
5:00 am: begin session where we did core, cardio, and a yoga stretch series
6:00 am: leave
6:20 am: arrive home, take supplements, shower
6:50 am: eat breakfast (a DELICIOUS meal replacement shake) and begin reading the Bible
7:20 am: lay down
8:30 am: wake to the phone ringing, Andy hands me the phone, it's my mom, and my cell phone started ringing. Wow, how about everyone call at once?
8:40: throw in some laundry and walk to the computer to blog about the fact I would swear it should be later in the day because I have done at least half a days worth of stuff
I do enjoy mornings, don't get me wrong. I even enjoy having my workout completed and being showered by 7am, or earlier. But man, it throws everything off for the rest of the day!
But alas, all is well in my world. No complaints at all. I am seeing God work some incredible things around me, and I love being a spectator to His awesome power. It is good. I love seeing the lives of others be opened up and filled up with Him. I am learning from the journeys of others, from their trials, struggles, and triumphs. If only we each knew how much our lives could teach others.
It is good, very good, even if it is only 9:00 am right now.
4:15: wake-up
4:40am: out the door
5:00 am: begin session where we did core, cardio, and a yoga stretch series
6:00 am: leave
6:20 am: arrive home, take supplements, shower
6:50 am: eat breakfast (a DELICIOUS meal replacement shake) and begin reading the Bible
7:20 am: lay down
8:30 am: wake to the phone ringing, Andy hands me the phone, it's my mom, and my cell phone started ringing. Wow, how about everyone call at once?
8:40: throw in some laundry and walk to the computer to blog about the fact I would swear it should be later in the day because I have done at least half a days worth of stuff
I do enjoy mornings, don't get me wrong. I even enjoy having my workout completed and being showered by 7am, or earlier. But man, it throws everything off for the rest of the day!
But alas, all is well in my world. No complaints at all. I am seeing God work some incredible things around me, and I love being a spectator to His awesome power. It is good. I love seeing the lives of others be opened up and filled up with Him. I am learning from the journeys of others, from their trials, struggles, and triumphs. If only we each knew how much our lives could teach others.
It is good, very good, even if it is only 9:00 am right now.
Jul 17, 2007
A.D ddddd - hey, what's that over there?
Wow, on a scale of 1-10, my A.D.D is at about a 20 today! My list of things to do is going undone, and I cannot focus on things I need to be focusing on! My Bible reading today? Hard.to.focus. I love David, a fool but one who loved God, but man I could not get myself focused. My workout? Great with my early client (did cardio with her and about killed us both), but my lifting at home? Ick...then again, that's thanks to a pulled tricep muscle (I don't recommend it). The workouts I am supposed to be organizing for my clients? Nowhere to be found. Wow....I need to get-it-TOGETHER!
Jul 16, 2007
Addicted? A little...
I got the following from another site, duh, and thought it was funny. Had to do it, you know, one of those kinds of things. Enjoy, and let me know how you score!
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Flickr flicking
I upgraded Flick'r, now I'm cool. Just like that, really.
Now, I get to upload thousands more pictures, then go through and make sure they have titles, are properly organized, and viewer friendly (or something like that). What fun......
If you need me, I'll be Flick'r-ing.
Now, I get to upload thousands more pictures, then go through and make sure they have titles, are properly organized, and viewer friendly (or something like that). What fun......
If you need me, I'll be Flick'r-ing.
Just another manic Monday
4:15 am surely comes quickly each morning, just in case you were wondering.
This past weekend was great fun, in spite of my cold. Friday night, the incredible Jami arrived, and not long after, we all went to bed. Saturday morning, at 6am, a friend of ours dropped off her kiddo (who is 4 and helarious) while she went to work - ahh, the joys of a nurse's schedule. Kiddo and I watched "Night at the Museum," danced a dance of jubilee when Andy made us all pancakes, then proceeded to watch "Chicken Run."
Following two movies and pancakes, I demanded we all go for a walk. We got quite a few sideways glances on our little jaunt too, which was funny. You see, kiddo's dad is black, mom is white, and he's a beautiful mix, and there there was me, Andy, and Jami. So, a grown man, wearing his wedding ring, walking with two white women, I wasn't wearing my ring, and a multi-ethnic kid in a stroller. The looks we got, it was obvious that people were trying to figure that one out. Hilarious! When we got back, we watched yet another movie, though I did claim that all these movies were turning our brains into vegetables. But, it was "Chicken Little," which made us all smile and had kiddo on his feet dancing. Another friend came to get kiddo to take him swimming, and so ended the babysitting.
After seeing kiddo off, Jami, Andy, and I headed to The Listening Cafe for some excellent sub sandwiches and a fun little atmosphere. No live music was going on, but it was still an enjoyable lunch. Three stools were set up in the middle of the floor with mic stands so Jami and I plopped down and said, "Come on Andy, we'll form a trio, and we need you since you are the only one with any musical talents!" His response? "The trio died before it even started, come on." Humph!
After lunch, we drove around the area showing Jami some incredible neighborhoods we like, and that I wouldn't mind living in. Cheap entertainment really, but that is the joy of being with folks who allow you to simply be, no action is required. Upon returning home, we chose to order a pizza for dinner and watch a movie. Netflix sent us The Machinist, and I must say, it was quite intriguing. It was a bit disturbing, though the plot was not half as disturbing as Christian Bale's 120 pound frame was. However, the climax and resolution were great, so it was worth it. Plus, none of us "figured it out" along the way, which made it even better.
Sunday involved church, where we heard an awesome message on materialism (WOW), lunch, a quick trip to Costco, then home. The house next door to us is now for rent, so throughout the weekend, I let Jami know I wouldn't mind her moving in there. I even told her it would be a much shorter drive if she was right next door, which had us both laughing. But really, I would love to have her so close. I also told my friend Cre she could move in, and they would have a blast as roommates, then I would have two close friends right next door. Now that would rock my world.
Jami and I also got into a great discussion Saturday night covering an array of topics, and I do love being able to talk on an intimate level with her because I value and can count on her honesty. All in all, it was a good weekend, a time to relax and just be, which is a nice change of pace.
This past weekend was great fun, in spite of my cold. Friday night, the incredible Jami arrived, and not long after, we all went to bed. Saturday morning, at 6am, a friend of ours dropped off her kiddo (who is 4 and helarious) while she went to work - ahh, the joys of a nurse's schedule. Kiddo and I watched "Night at the Museum," danced a dance of jubilee when Andy made us all pancakes, then proceeded to watch "Chicken Run."
Following two movies and pancakes, I demanded we all go for a walk. We got quite a few sideways glances on our little jaunt too, which was funny. You see, kiddo's dad is black, mom is white, and he's a beautiful mix, and there there was me, Andy, and Jami. So, a grown man, wearing his wedding ring, walking with two white women, I wasn't wearing my ring, and a multi-ethnic kid in a stroller. The looks we got, it was obvious that people were trying to figure that one out. Hilarious! When we got back, we watched yet another movie, though I did claim that all these movies were turning our brains into vegetables. But, it was "Chicken Little," which made us all smile and had kiddo on his feet dancing. Another friend came to get kiddo to take him swimming, and so ended the babysitting.
After seeing kiddo off, Jami, Andy, and I headed to The Listening Cafe for some excellent sub sandwiches and a fun little atmosphere. No live music was going on, but it was still an enjoyable lunch. Three stools were set up in the middle of the floor with mic stands so Jami and I plopped down and said, "Come on Andy, we'll form a trio, and we need you since you are the only one with any musical talents!" His response? "The trio died before it even started, come on." Humph!
After lunch, we drove around the area showing Jami some incredible neighborhoods we like, and that I wouldn't mind living in. Cheap entertainment really, but that is the joy of being with folks who allow you to simply be, no action is required. Upon returning home, we chose to order a pizza for dinner and watch a movie. Netflix sent us The Machinist, and I must say, it was quite intriguing. It was a bit disturbing, though the plot was not half as disturbing as Christian Bale's 120 pound frame was. However, the climax and resolution were great, so it was worth it. Plus, none of us "figured it out" along the way, which made it even better.
Sunday involved church, where we heard an awesome message on materialism (WOW), lunch, a quick trip to Costco, then home. The house next door to us is now for rent, so throughout the weekend, I let Jami know I wouldn't mind her moving in there. I even told her it would be a much shorter drive if she was right next door, which had us both laughing. But really, I would love to have her so close. I also told my friend Cre she could move in, and they would have a blast as roommates, then I would have two close friends right next door. Now that would rock my world.
Jami and I also got into a great discussion Saturday night covering an array of topics, and I do love being able to talk on an intimate level with her because I value and can count on her honesty. All in all, it was a good weekend, a time to relax and just be, which is a nice change of pace.
Jul 13, 2007
I could eat the air it smells so good!
While we were on our vacation in North Carolina, my sister-in-law gave me a mix and a recipe to follow to make Amish friendship bread. Today was the tenth day, the day to actually make the bread. This morning, after my coma like nap, I decided to make the bread....and prayed it would actually taste as delicious as my s.i.l's did.
I am happy to report, that the bread turned out, and it is GOOD! The entire house smells delicious actually, which also helped get me to eat lunch. (Thanks to a mild cold I am battling, I am not very hungry.) The smell of the bread floating throughout the house actually had me wondering if there was to eat the air, it smelled.that.good . With a friend coming into town tonight, I am thrilled that the bread turned out, and that I have the starter kit for her to take back to make. Truly, if I can accomplish this task, anyone can. Andy will be so happy when he comes home today to the smell of freshly made bread.
Week one of training at 5am is complete. Aside from an assortment of mosquito bites (we workout outdoors and it's been raining), and my body being shocked each morning when the alarm goes off at 4:20 am, it is going well. I am beyond proud of my client, being a working mom/wife, and sticking to this. She's doing awesome, and I can't wait to see her progress throughout the remainder of our 6 weeks together.
God blessed me with yet another new client this week too, yippee! I'll be training her two nights a week for an hour each time. Praise the Lord! Two newbies in one week, it's great! The joy of this type of work, the ever changing tide of clients. But, I do enjoy it, enjoy working with others and seeing them improve their health, and helping them become more confident. It's been a good, good week, despite the excess amount of snot currently in my airways.
I am happy to report, that the bread turned out, and it is GOOD! The entire house smells delicious actually, which also helped get me to eat lunch. (Thanks to a mild cold I am battling, I am not very hungry.) The smell of the bread floating throughout the house actually had me wondering if there was to eat the air, it smelled.that.good . With a friend coming into town tonight, I am thrilled that the bread turned out, and that I have the starter kit for her to take back to make. Truly, if I can accomplish this task, anyone can. Andy will be so happy when he comes home today to the smell of freshly made bread.
Week one of training at 5am is complete. Aside from an assortment of mosquito bites (we workout outdoors and it's been raining), and my body being shocked each morning when the alarm goes off at 4:20 am, it is going well. I am beyond proud of my client, being a working mom/wife, and sticking to this. She's doing awesome, and I can't wait to see her progress throughout the remainder of our 6 weeks together.
God blessed me with yet another new client this week too, yippee! I'll be training her two nights a week for an hour each time. Praise the Lord! Two newbies in one week, it's great! The joy of this type of work, the ever changing tide of clients. But, I do enjoy it, enjoy working with others and seeing them improve their health, and helping them become more confident. It's been a good, good week, despite the excess amount of snot currently in my airways.
Jul 12, 2007
Naked Truth
The following is an excerpt from a blog Ted Dekker writes. It's a great article, to read all of it, click here.
"It occurs to me that I tend to write Naked Novels. Meaning my characters are deeply flawed, struggling with real evil, living in worlds in which the darkness is dark and the light is anything but gray.
Why? Because it’s the naked truth.
Yet, while one reader sees as an authentic story which characterizes good and evil in ways that are consistent with their true natures, another sees that dreaded word which all but the younger generation fears:
Controversy.
We are terrified of getting Naked in the Church. Why, I’m not sure. To avoid offense, I suppose. But it strikes me that the gospel is Naked. Controversial. Offensive to all who don’t understand it. Persecuted. Thrown out and tromped on."
*Get Naked and Save the World: May 23, 2007, "Why I write Naked Novels" by Ted Dekker (www.teddekker.com)
"It occurs to me that I tend to write Naked Novels. Meaning my characters are deeply flawed, struggling with real evil, living in worlds in which the darkness is dark and the light is anything but gray.
Why? Because it’s the naked truth.
Yet, while one reader sees as an authentic story which characterizes good and evil in ways that are consistent with their true natures, another sees that dreaded word which all but the younger generation fears:
Controversy.
We are terrified of getting Naked in the Church. Why, I’m not sure. To avoid offense, I suppose. But it strikes me that the gospel is Naked. Controversial. Offensive to all who don’t understand it. Persecuted. Thrown out and tromped on."
*Get Naked and Save the World: May 23, 2007, "Why I write Naked Novels" by Ted Dekker (www.teddekker.com)
Hip hip hooray!
Finally, I am all caught up with my Bible reading schedule. Going out of town threw me off track, mainly because I chose to not stay on schedule. No excuses, that's just how it was. But, as of today, I am back where I am supposed to be. Let me sum up the book of Judges for you: Israel walks with God, Israel rebels against God, God disciplines Israel for their rebellion, Israel cries out, "Help us Lord, have mercy!" and God mercifully steps in. Over and over again this happens. Last night I looked at Andy and said, "Well, we have not gotten very far since mankind was first created. We're still in the same cycle as they were."
Training at 5 am has gone well, but I will admit I am starting to take naps again. I feel guilty too because my client is at work all day, and I get enough down time for a nap. Yesterday, I fell asleep at 1pm, and did not wake up until 2:45! When I did wake up, I bolted up, it was so strange. I had been dead to the world, fast asleep, skipping with the Sandman himself, and then *boom* I was wide awake. After having a hard time falling asleep last night, I have decided to always set an alarm clock when I decide to nap, hopefully it will help in keeping me from napping too long.
Tomorrow night, Jami will be arriving. I am now really looking forward to the weekend, though I have no idea what we will be doing. It doesn't really matter because regardless of what we do, I always have fun with that girl. We love when she comes to visit!
Now, time to get back to my Ted Dekker book, Black, before I have to be at the gym to train some folks this evening.
Training at 5 am has gone well, but I will admit I am starting to take naps again. I feel guilty too because my client is at work all day, and I get enough down time for a nap. Yesterday, I fell asleep at 1pm, and did not wake up until 2:45! When I did wake up, I bolted up, it was so strange. I had been dead to the world, fast asleep, skipping with the Sandman himself, and then *boom* I was wide awake. After having a hard time falling asleep last night, I have decided to always set an alarm clock when I decide to nap, hopefully it will help in keeping me from napping too long.
Tomorrow night, Jami will be arriving. I am now really looking forward to the weekend, though I have no idea what we will be doing. It doesn't really matter because regardless of what we do, I always have fun with that girl. We love when she comes to visit!
Now, time to get back to my Ted Dekker book, Black, before I have to be at the gym to train some folks this evening.
Jul 10, 2007
Keys for a Healthy Weight
The following tips were emailed to me from Dr. Bob Ray, the very man who delivered me into this world, and the man who got my dad running marathons when I was young. Enjoy.
Exercise is one of 20 keys to permanent weight loss, according to the Mayo Clinic.
20 Tips for Permanent Weight Loss
1. Exercise 30 to 60 minutes each day. If time is limited, exercise for several brief periods throughout the day — for example, three 10-minute sessions rather than one 30-minute session.
2. Eat three healthy meals during the day, including a good breakfast. Skipping meals causes increased hunger and may lead to excessive snacking.
3. Focus on fruits and vegetables. Top off your morning cereal with sliced strawberries or bananas. Stir berries or peaches in yogurt or cottage cheese. Liven up your sandwiches with vegetables, such as tomato, lettuce, onion, peppers and cucumber.
4. Weigh yourself regularly. Monitoring your weight can tell you whether your efforts are working and can help you detect small weight gains before they become even larger.
5. Don't keep comfort foods in the house. If you tend to eat high-fat, high-calorie foods when you're upset or depressed or bored, don't keep them around. Availability of food is one of the strongest factors in determining how much a person eats.
6. Plan a family activity. Get the family together to go for a bike ride, play disc golf or kick the ball around in the yard.
7. Eat healthy foods first. Eat foods that are healthy and low in calories first so that when it comes time to enjoy your favorites — sweets or junk food, for example — you won't be so hungry.
8. Pay attention to portions. Serve meals already dished onto plates instead of placing serving bowls on the table. Take slightly less than what you think you'll eat. You can always have seconds, if really necessary.
9. Create opportunities to be active. Wash your car at home instead of going to the car wash. Bike or walk to the store. Participate in your kid's activities at the playground or park.
10. Sit down together for family meals. Avoid eating in front of the television. TV viewing strongly affects how much and what people eat.
11. See what you eat. Eating directly from a container gives you no sense of how much you're eating. Seeing food on a plate or in a bowl keeps you aware of how much you're eating.
12. Vary your activities. Regularly change your activity routine to avoid exercise burnout. Walk a couple of days, swim another and go for a bike ride on the weekend. Seek out new activities — karate, ballroom dancing, cross-country skiing, tennis or Pilates.
13. De-stress your day. Stress can cause you to eat more. Develop strategies that can help you relax when you find yourself becoming stressed. Exercise, deep breathing, muscle relaxation techniques and even a good laugh can ease stress.
14. Eat at home. People eat more food in restaurants than at home. Limit how often you eat at restaurants. If you do eat out, decide what and how much you're going to eat before you start and have the rest boxed to go.
15. Plan healthy snacks. The best snacks include fruits, vegetables, whole grains and low-fat dairy products. Fruit smoothies, sliced fresh fruit and yogurt, whole-grain crackers, and carrot and celery sticks with peanut butter are all good choices.
16. Start your day with a high-fiber breakfast cereal, such as bran flakes, shredded wheat or oatmeal. Opt for cereals with "bran" or "fiber" in the name. Or add a few tablespoons of unprocessed wheat bran to your favorite cereal. I choose to have AdvoCare Meal replacement shakes - good amount of fiber as well as an array of other wonderful nutrients.
17. Walk for 10 minutes over your lunch hour or get up a few minutes earlier in the morning and go for a short walk.
18. Plan a week's worth of meals at a time. Make a detailed grocery list to eliminate last-minute trips to the grocery store and impulse buys.
19. Look for a distraction when you're fighting a craving. Call a friend, put on music and dance or exercise, clean the house, pull weeds in your garden, or run an errand. When your mind is occupied with something else, the cravings quickly go away.
20. Reward yourself. Losing weight and keeping the pounds off is a major accomplishment. Celebrate your success with nonfood rewards, such as new clothes or an outing with friends.
Exercise is one of 20 keys to permanent weight loss, according to the Mayo Clinic.
20 Tips for Permanent Weight Loss
1. Exercise 30 to 60 minutes each day. If time is limited, exercise for several brief periods throughout the day — for example, three 10-minute sessions rather than one 30-minute session.
2. Eat three healthy meals during the day, including a good breakfast. Skipping meals causes increased hunger and may lead to excessive snacking.
3. Focus on fruits and vegetables. Top off your morning cereal with sliced strawberries or bananas. Stir berries or peaches in yogurt or cottage cheese. Liven up your sandwiches with vegetables, such as tomato, lettuce, onion, peppers and cucumber.
4. Weigh yourself regularly. Monitoring your weight can tell you whether your efforts are working and can help you detect small weight gains before they become even larger.
5. Don't keep comfort foods in the house. If you tend to eat high-fat, high-calorie foods when you're upset or depressed or bored, don't keep them around. Availability of food is one of the strongest factors in determining how much a person eats.
6. Plan a family activity. Get the family together to go for a bike ride, play disc golf or kick the ball around in the yard.
7. Eat healthy foods first. Eat foods that are healthy and low in calories first so that when it comes time to enjoy your favorites — sweets or junk food, for example — you won't be so hungry.
8. Pay attention to portions. Serve meals already dished onto plates instead of placing serving bowls on the table. Take slightly less than what you think you'll eat. You can always have seconds, if really necessary.
9. Create opportunities to be active. Wash your car at home instead of going to the car wash. Bike or walk to the store. Participate in your kid's activities at the playground or park.
10. Sit down together for family meals. Avoid eating in front of the television. TV viewing strongly affects how much and what people eat.
11. See what you eat. Eating directly from a container gives you no sense of how much you're eating. Seeing food on a plate or in a bowl keeps you aware of how much you're eating.
12. Vary your activities. Regularly change your activity routine to avoid exercise burnout. Walk a couple of days, swim another and go for a bike ride on the weekend. Seek out new activities — karate, ballroom dancing, cross-country skiing, tennis or Pilates.
13. De-stress your day. Stress can cause you to eat more. Develop strategies that can help you relax when you find yourself becoming stressed. Exercise, deep breathing, muscle relaxation techniques and even a good laugh can ease stress.
14. Eat at home. People eat more food in restaurants than at home. Limit how often you eat at restaurants. If you do eat out, decide what and how much you're going to eat before you start and have the rest boxed to go.
15. Plan healthy snacks. The best snacks include fruits, vegetables, whole grains and low-fat dairy products. Fruit smoothies, sliced fresh fruit and yogurt, whole-grain crackers, and carrot and celery sticks with peanut butter are all good choices.
16. Start your day with a high-fiber breakfast cereal, such as bran flakes, shredded wheat or oatmeal. Opt for cereals with "bran" or "fiber" in the name. Or add a few tablespoons of unprocessed wheat bran to your favorite cereal. I choose to have AdvoCare Meal replacement shakes - good amount of fiber as well as an array of other wonderful nutrients.
17. Walk for 10 minutes over your lunch hour or get up a few minutes earlier in the morning and go for a short walk.
18. Plan a week's worth of meals at a time. Make a detailed grocery list to eliminate last-minute trips to the grocery store and impulse buys.
19. Look for a distraction when you're fighting a craving. Call a friend, put on music and dance or exercise, clean the house, pull weeds in your garden, or run an errand. When your mind is occupied with something else, the cravings quickly go away.
20. Reward yourself. Losing weight and keeping the pounds off is a major accomplishment. Celebrate your success with nonfood rewards, such as new clothes or an outing with friends.
What in the world?!?!
It's raining, hard. It's a downpour. Praise the Lord, it will keep me from having to water our poor excuse for a lawn. I love it, but I would like to make a request that it stop when I have to leave the house. I hate driving in the rain.
Day 2 of the 5 days a week for 6 weeks training at 5am is complete. We did cardio today, and I, being the very cool trainer I am, opted to do the workout alongside my client. Maybe she will hate me less now....but probably not. I tried to crack jokes along the way, not sure I was found funny. Oh well, that early in the morning, being told, "come on, we're doing that segment again," tends to ruin the best of humorous personalities.
Did I mention I am training at 5am? I am so sleepy. I would swear it was 1 in the afternoon, which would be unfortunate since I'm meeting a friend for lunch today at 12:30, but no, I just looked at the clock, it's 10:23am. Feels like I have done a full day's worth of activities already. A nap! That's what I need, a nap. Yes, a nice little power nap before meeting my friend for lunch. Raining outside, and I am about to take a nap. Now that is my idea of a perfect day!
Day 2 of the 5 days a week for 6 weeks training at 5am is complete. We did cardio today, and I, being the very cool trainer I am, opted to do the workout alongside my client. Maybe she will hate me less now....but probably not. I tried to crack jokes along the way, not sure I was found funny. Oh well, that early in the morning, being told, "come on, we're doing that segment again," tends to ruin the best of humorous personalities.
Did I mention I am training at 5am? I am so sleepy. I would swear it was 1 in the afternoon, which would be unfortunate since I'm meeting a friend for lunch today at 12:30, but no, I just looked at the clock, it's 10:23am. Feels like I have done a full day's worth of activities already. A nap! That's what I need, a nap. Yes, a nice little power nap before meeting my friend for lunch. Raining outside, and I am about to take a nap. Now that is my idea of a perfect day!
God lives...here's proof
The following is taken from a friend's blog. They have just adopted a girl from China. Their story is remarkable, will have you in tears, and proof that God is alive and working in the lives of His people. As I read through their blog, I was reminding sentence after sentence that God is good and cares for His people.
We continued through the park, people continued to stare, and I continued to smile at them. I fully expected this as I headed to the park, even though I do not typically like to draw attention to myself in social situations. I think for me, today’s walk was kind of a “right of passage” so to speak. It was a way for me to express to Abigail (and to myself) that I am committed to her, no matter how different we look, no matter how much we stand out, no matter how often people stare. I am committed to her. She is my daughter, now and forever
For more on their journey to Abigail, click here.
We continued through the park, people continued to stare, and I continued to smile at them. I fully expected this as I headed to the park, even though I do not typically like to draw attention to myself in social situations. I think for me, today’s walk was kind of a “right of passage” so to speak. It was a way for me to express to Abigail (and to myself) that I am committed to her, no matter how different we look, no matter how much we stand out, no matter how often people stare. I am committed to her. She is my daughter, now and forever
For more on their journey to Abigail, click here.
Playing Catch Up
As I type, I am listening to the book of Deuteronomy online. I found this site this morning. I have gotten behind in my Bible reading, and decided I would try to find an audio version to help me catch up. I think I could read it quicker, but it's nice to have someone reading it for me. If that's not a new level of lazy...
While listening to Deuteronomy 4, it sounded like Mufasa or Darth Vader reading to me. No such luck with Chapter 5, this voice sounds like all the ones I heard while playing stories on cds for my English students. You know, slightly monotone and a bit less interesting. Maybe chapter 6 will be better. Oh wait, I could just read it on my own. Now, there's an idea.
Yesterday, I picked up two Ted Dekker books from the library, Black and Red. They are the first two books in a trilogy, and I am trying to keep myself from getting deep into book one until I am caught up with my Bible reading. Speaking of which, I can no longer handle this man's voice, and I think I can read faster. So, I'm getting off this computer and getting to work on my reading.
Happy trails my friend.
While listening to Deuteronomy 4, it sounded like Mufasa or Darth Vader reading to me. No such luck with Chapter 5, this voice sounds like all the ones I heard while playing stories on cds for my English students. You know, slightly monotone and a bit less interesting. Maybe chapter 6 will be better. Oh wait, I could just read it on my own. Now, there's an idea.
Yesterday, I picked up two Ted Dekker books from the library, Black and Red. They are the first two books in a trilogy, and I am trying to keep myself from getting deep into book one until I am caught up with my Bible reading. Speaking of which, I can no longer handle this man's voice, and I think I can read faster. So, I'm getting off this computer and getting to work on my reading.
Happy trails my friend.
Jul 9, 2007
Pictures pictures
Until I upgrade my Flickr account, these links to Shutterfly will have to do. So, for all the fun filled pictures of our trip to Lake Norman in North Carolina, click here.
Sit back and enjoy, there are quite a few of them.
Sit back and enjoy, there are quite a few of them.
Home again home again
We returned safely home yesterday after 6 days in North Carolina. Every summer we head out to Lake Norman to hang out with my honey's family, relax, and enjoy time away from our normal routines. We didn't get to see two of my darling's siblings nor their families, but it was still a wonderful time! Then again, I always find time with family highly enjoyable.
For now, I have a few errands to run so I will leave you with two pictures. Enjoy, more to come later.
Setting out on an evening ride on the boat. So very beautiful, and good for the soul!
Heading out for some tubing. One of our nephews rode a smaller tube beside us, and as he flipped off at one point, the tube flipped up and popped me in the face. Good times.
For now, I have a few errands to run so I will leave you with two pictures. Enjoy, more to come later.
Setting out on an evening ride on the boat. So very beautiful, and good for the soul!
Heading out for some tubing. One of our nephews rode a smaller tube beside us, and as he flipped off at one point, the tube flipped up and popped me in the face. Good times.
Jul 6, 2007
Staying on track
Being on vacation has not hurt my workouts at all, which I'm happy about. That is one of the perks of having relatives who are health conscious and find gyms to workout at while on vacations. Sweet! My schedule for my Bible reading however is a different story. I seem to have become a bit too entrenched in a book from the library and grab it instead. OOPS! I need to get with it. Then again, maybe it's not the fault of the library book but the fact I'm in Numbers, essential and important, but not the most fascinating of reads. Well, not for my brain anyway. I'm sure if I had a greater understanding it would be. But anyway, I'm happy to say I am still able to mark off each task as complete at the end of the day, even while we are on vacation.
Down on the Boardwalk
I am sitting in a beautiful house on Lake Norman, watching my sister in law play with her youngest daughter, glancing across the room at my sweet husband, and listening to the sound of the water as it washes to and from the docks. Kids sporadically run through, asking questions, wondering what adventure they will be allowed to partake in next, and when the boat will be leaving the dock again. It is a sweet time with family.
The sun has been shining, the weather wonderful, and the time a blessing. Every year at this time, we are spoiled by being allowed to join Andy's family on the lake. Spoiled to be taken on boat rides, laughing with family, and seeing nieces and nephews we see too rarely. They are precious, entertaining, and wonderful. I love this time of year.
Andy and I celebrated our 4th anniversary yesterday, and to be with family during that time made it even better.
One of our nieces just entered the room singing, and though I do not know the song she is singing, I think it's beautiful. She is beautiful, then again, I think they all are.
It is so nice to be away from the normal routine, to be able to sit back, kick up our feet, read a book, and not worry about a thing. No schedules, no deadlines, no one to meet, no classes to teach, no clients to train, just family to enjoy, sunscreen to put on, and scenery to take in. This is our chance to breathe in the scenery and the people, deeply and slowly. Much like the calmness of the lake, it is soothing, comforting, and lulls me into a place of complete peacefulness and utter joy.
The sun has been shining, the weather wonderful, and the time a blessing. Every year at this time, we are spoiled by being allowed to join Andy's family on the lake. Spoiled to be taken on boat rides, laughing with family, and seeing nieces and nephews we see too rarely. They are precious, entertaining, and wonderful. I love this time of year.
Andy and I celebrated our 4th anniversary yesterday, and to be with family during that time made it even better.
One of our nieces just entered the room singing, and though I do not know the song she is singing, I think it's beautiful. She is beautiful, then again, I think they all are.
It is so nice to be away from the normal routine, to be able to sit back, kick up our feet, read a book, and not worry about a thing. No schedules, no deadlines, no one to meet, no classes to teach, no clients to train, just family to enjoy, sunscreen to put on, and scenery to take in. This is our chance to breathe in the scenery and the people, deeply and slowly. Much like the calmness of the lake, it is soothing, comforting, and lulls me into a place of complete peacefulness and utter joy.
Jul 2, 2007
She'll be comin round the mountain....
Since we are heading to North Carolina tomorrow, Andy has decided to work from home for the day. He's just starting a new project and his time, right now, is spent doing some research on the programs he'll be using. He will be here tomorrow, he won't be leaving for work. Man, I hope he doesn't jack up my routine! I have a morning method that works, and now, it is threatened. Great.
Good thing we'll be at the lake all week for me to get over my one day of not getting my way. Yea, my life is a hard one. Ha ha ha.
Good thing we'll be at the lake all week for me to get over my one day of not getting my way. Yea, my life is a hard one. Ha ha ha.
It's a Beautiful Day
What a fabulous morning, although it is now almost 2pm as I type this. Oh well, it was a beautiful morning. I'm on the 3rd week of my new workouts, and there was a nice breeze while I was out jogging this morning. SWEET! I'm officially done with Leviticus and am now reading Numbers. Honestly, I am enjoying the Bible reading plan I am doing. I will be happy to be done with the pentateuch, I must say. So many laws and do this if that, and do that if this, and on and on and on. I told Andy my abbreviated version of it all, said I could sum it up in a few sentences. He informed me I probably shouldn't go toe to toe with God on this one. The man is probably right. Plus, if I was raised in the Jewish faith, some of this might have a deeper meaning. All I know, is thank you Jesus (literally)!!!!
Friday night, we watched "I Am David" with our friend Christine. Oh my word, what an incredible movie! Here's a summary from the website:
An extraordinary family adventure, I AM DAVID follows a twelve year-old boy as he boldly escapes from an East European prison camp and makes an incredible personal journey to freedom. Fleeing with only a compass, half a loaf of bread and a sealed, secret letter he must carry across the continent, David cannot foresee the dramatic odyssey that awaits him. From stowing away on a ship bound for Italy, to facing his fears of the dangerous outside world, to the unexpected revelation of his true identity, David discovers for the first time the real meaning of courage, trust, laughter and hope. I highly recommend this one.
While at Christine's, we got into a discussion on being "real." We talked about people who say all is well when they are being beaten up by the world and their circumstance; people who would rather say all is well than really get down on an intimate level and share the cry of their heart. It was a great talk, and of course, got me to thinking.
Although I do believe we typically respond with, "I am fine," even when we are not, I do know some people who are looking ahead as they say that. For instance, a friend of ours came up to us one day at church and said, "you two can pray for me, I get to look for a job." He had lost his job, but because he trusts God to take care of him, he saw finding a new job as an opportunity. Somewhere there's got to be a balance between speaking how I might feel (everything stinks right now and I'm drowning in the sea of life) and truth (God is taking care of me and in the end, I know it's going to be OK). Part of Matthew 12:34 states, "For the mouth speaks out of that which fills the heart." If the Spirit is filling me, then my speech would reflect that. Therefore, regardless of my circumstances, I could honestly say, "It is well!"
Sometimes I believe we want to hear others moan and groan so we don't feel alone (do you like that rhyme?). When I am in the midst of suffering, I want someone to suffer with me, I don't want to hear about how wonderful someone else is doing, I want someone else to be walking through pain with me. But, how selfish that is. It is truly better for me to be surrounded by those living out and believing the faith they claim, surrounded by people who will remind me that God will take care of me (Romans 8:28, "And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose").
Somewhere, there is balance, though I'm not sure I know what that really looks like. We must be able to pour out our hearts to one another good and bad, but we must also share the hope that He has given us. Simply put, we need Jesus. In fact, I recommend checking out the sermon found here from 7/1/07, it's incredible!
Friday night, we watched "I Am David" with our friend Christine. Oh my word, what an incredible movie! Here's a summary from the website:
An extraordinary family adventure, I AM DAVID follows a twelve year-old boy as he boldly escapes from an East European prison camp and makes an incredible personal journey to freedom. Fleeing with only a compass, half a loaf of bread and a sealed, secret letter he must carry across the continent, David cannot foresee the dramatic odyssey that awaits him. From stowing away on a ship bound for Italy, to facing his fears of the dangerous outside world, to the unexpected revelation of his true identity, David discovers for the first time the real meaning of courage, trust, laughter and hope. I highly recommend this one.
While at Christine's, we got into a discussion on being "real." We talked about people who say all is well when they are being beaten up by the world and their circumstance; people who would rather say all is well than really get down on an intimate level and share the cry of their heart. It was a great talk, and of course, got me to thinking.
Although I do believe we typically respond with, "I am fine," even when we are not, I do know some people who are looking ahead as they say that. For instance, a friend of ours came up to us one day at church and said, "you two can pray for me, I get to look for a job." He had lost his job, but because he trusts God to take care of him, he saw finding a new job as an opportunity. Somewhere there's got to be a balance between speaking how I might feel (everything stinks right now and I'm drowning in the sea of life) and truth (God is taking care of me and in the end, I know it's going to be OK). Part of Matthew 12:34 states, "For the mouth speaks out of that which fills the heart." If the Spirit is filling me, then my speech would reflect that. Therefore, regardless of my circumstances, I could honestly say, "It is well!"
Sometimes I believe we want to hear others moan and groan so we don't feel alone (do you like that rhyme?). When I am in the midst of suffering, I want someone to suffer with me, I don't want to hear about how wonderful someone else is doing, I want someone else to be walking through pain with me. But, how selfish that is. It is truly better for me to be surrounded by those living out and believing the faith they claim, surrounded by people who will remind me that God will take care of me (Romans 8:28, "And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose").
Somewhere, there is balance, though I'm not sure I know what that really looks like. We must be able to pour out our hearts to one another good and bad, but we must also share the hope that He has given us. Simply put, we need Jesus. In fact, I recommend checking out the sermon found here from 7/1/07, it's incredible!
Jul 1, 2007
Night At The Museum - Dum-Dum
This movie makes me laugh out loud, especially the talking statue. Oh, too funny. Lucky for me, Andy bought the movie for me for our anniversary.
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